讓正能量圍繞寶寶 Make positive energy around children
家庭環境對孩子的健康成長有很大的影響，父母是孩子最親近的人，父母的行為及情緒會直接影響孩子的心理健康發育，孩子的性格亦會在潛移默化中受到父母的影響。1要避免孩子因父母的不良情緒而影響正常的心理發育，家長可以注意以下幾點:
1. 不要在孩子面前吵架
會讓孩子產生緊張心理和恐懼感。如經常再孩子面前大吵大鬧，會讓孩子精神高度不安，失去安全感。
2. 不要在孩子面前指責他人
父母的行為其實是孩子的標杆，這樣的行為會令孩子學會不良的待人處事方式，同時會扭曲孩子的心靈，讓孩子的心理健康受到極大影響。
3. 不要在孩子面前抱怨
父母是孩子的最大靠山，父母對生活的態度直接影響孩子對生活的安全感和信心。父母經常在孩子面前抱怨生活會令他們過早接觸到社會和生活方面的壓力，產生不安感、身心過早承受到不該有得壓力。
4. 不要用偏激語氣來表達對事物的看法
心理專家認為，過激的語言和情緒會令孩子的心理也往偏激的方向轉化，對他們性格塑造和心理發育產生不良影響。
1. 父母不要在孩子面前做的四件事(2017)。每日頭條。摘錄至: http://bit.ly/2AJsn0u
Family environment has a great influence on children’s healthy development. Parents are the closest to their children. Parents’ behavior and emotion can indirectly influence children’s psychological healthy development and children’s character can be imperceptibly influenced by their parents. Parents should avoid their negative emotions influencing children’s psychological development. There are some tips that parents can follow:
1. Do not quarrel in front of the children.
Quarrel makes children fell nervous and have a sense of fear. If parents often quarrel in front of the children, they will have a lot of mental strain and lost a sense of security.
2. Do not blame others in front of the children.
Parents’ behavior is the benchmark of the children. Blaming others may make children learn bad ways of treating others and handling affairs, distort children’s soul and greatly influence their psychological health.
3. Do not complain in front of the children.
Parents are main supporters of children. The attitude of parents towards life indirectly influence the sense of security and confidence of the children towards life. Parents often complain of life in front of the children, which make children are under pressure from the society and life so that children can feel the sense of insecurity and suffer from untimely pressure that they shouldn’t bear.
4. Do not express opinions in extreme tones.
Psychologists agree that extreme language and feelings can make children’s psychology turn to be extreme. Extreme expressions have bad influences on children’s character and psychological development.
